Wear a thong to please him

We recently completed our survey on thongs and based on the responses that we have received, we can not overemphasize the point that a person's underwear choices are totally personal. (Related article: How to choose underwear?) This is something that men should understand more than anyone else. Men like to see certain type of underwear on the women that they love but it may not be what the woman really wants to wear for whatever reason (too shy, not comfortable, not practical, etc.).

Having said that, it is important for women to realize that they might have to wear something just to please their partner, particularly if it is a gift. As Alice writes to us, "I have never been a big fan of thongs but I have a big collection of them because Thomas keeps buying those for me. I wear them whenever I know he is likely to see me; on other occasions, I wear what I like - boy shorts."

Byron writes, "I've been going out with Renee, 26, for a couple of years. A couple of times in the past I have bought her lingerie - both times, my gift included a g-string. Trouble is, she hardly ever wears them! When she does, she says it is to get rid of lines across her back. We went to a wedding last weekend and she wore a g-string voluntarily - to my delight! But I wish she didn't think along such practical lines. I wish she'd wear them more often. Her body is perfectly shaped for them, but she says she doesn't much like them. Anyone else encountered similar reluctance among girls to wear thongs and g-strings?"

Our research has shown that many women do not like thongs. Others cannot wear for a variety of reasons. (Related article: Do only bad girls wear thongs?) So if you are in the same situation as Byron, don't get too frustrated and just let her wear what she likes. Our message to the girls: There is nothing bad about wearing a thong and if your partner likes to see you in one, give it a try. You will learn to like them; as many women have found out.

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